A Phone Sex Caller May Be A Perv, But He’s Not Just Any Perv

There are differences between phone sex callers, erotica readers, viewers of porn videos, subscribers to Internet porn sites, those who go to strip clubs, those who use pay for the companionship of escorts, those who pay for services of real world dungeons, etc. Even if all these services fall into the same perverted niche, say a BDSM or foot fetish itch, the “perv” has selected the specific service for scratching his niche-itch because of its unique method of delivery.

It is a mistake to think that a client opts for a book, DVD, or website subscription simply because it’s cheaper than hiring a prostitute; that phone sex is used only because the guy can’t afford a hooker; that the guy is a loner or loser unable to get sex for free. (It’s also a mistake to think that he seeks any or all of these sexual fantasy materials because he’s not getting it at home; more on that another time.) As with sex toys, the goal may be the same, but the spots each service or form of entertainment reach are different.

The easiest example to illustrate this — and one that is often confused as a threat to the phone sex industry — is webcam sex.

When the webcam sex business hit the Internet, many in the phone sex industry began to wring their hands, fearing that it would silence the rings of their phones. But it didn’t.

Why not?

Because visual stimulation is completely different than audio stimulation.

Yes, even though we are repeatedly told — and made witness to — the fact that men are very visual creatures, images and videos are not the only way to his dick.

There are many ways to generate human arousal, and men are not immune to them. In fact, part of their lust for variety stems from the desire to be aroused in other ways.

This is why a man may have a chest full of videos, a stack of men’s magazines, a large monthly phone sex bill — and a very active and satisfying sex life with his wife.

But then too, just as we all do, any individual may have a means of arousal that is preferred above all others. Like a favorite meal at a restaurant, he may return to his favorite erotic entertainment form because it never fails to satisfy. For many men, this favored feast is professional phone sex.

God bless ’em, I say. *wink*

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