Married Phone Sex Callers

In many ways, the sex phone biz is a lot like escorting: Men seek companionship, the possibility of sexual fantasy, or at the least the freedom to talk about it without judgment; you’re paid to deliver it.

These men are single, dating, divorced, widowed, married (or otherwise living in a committed relationship) — in all stages of relationships. It’s important to understand and accept this as fact before you begin a phone sex career.

Married men, men in committed relationships, they will call phone sex lines for entertainment purposes, much as they flip through pages of men’s magazines or surf porn on the Internet; they are in monogamous relationships — even happy ones, but they are not dead.

If you think participating in phone sex with a married or otherwise committed persons is condoning cheating or to be complicit to the cheating, you’ll never make it in this business. (Those of you mildly uncomfortable can read this excellent post by phone sex operators, The Peck & Call Girls: Is Phone Sex Cheating? Maybe that will help.)

You can’t avoid married male callers. You can’t simply ask them to confess and trust their answers; yup, men seeking phone sex services lie. (Or, if you prefer, you can think of it as they often do, as taking on their own fantasy phone sex personalities; tit for tat, so to speak.) You can’t afford to perform the kind of screening required to eliminate all married or committed men from using your services.The fact remains: A phone sex operator has calls from married men.

You can accept that and perform your duties as a PSO; or you can avoid the gig.

The one thing you cannot do is take a phone sex job and think you can change this fact by taking some “higher moral ground,” lecturing married callers or refusing to give them the services they are paying for. No matter what your opinion is, you cannot “save” these men or their marriages — these men are going to call someone. Your discomfort or refusal to take their calls just forces them to move on — annoyed, upset, or worse — to another who will provide the services. Plus you will lose your job. Even independents have to answer to someone, be it third party phone platforms or credit card companies. All it takes is a few key complaints in the right places and you’re out of business; another girl quickly takes your place and the caller’s money.

So be comfortable and accepting of married callers, or don’t sign up to be a phone sex provider.

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