Today’s Phone Sex Tip: The Sounds Of Erotic Spankings In BDSM Phone Sex

When it comes to the more physical punishing sides of BDSM phone sex, there’s no getting around the noises. The proper sounds of spankings, croppings, etc. are essential to these calls.

For submissive PSOs…

You’ll hear all sorts of silly “options” for getting around these noises, such as smacking raw chicken or using a ruler on a table or pillow, but they are not recommended. These are tricks to fake participation in the fantasy. When you’re not participating in the fantasy at all, the caller might as well listen to the sound of plastic window blinds slapping against the window frame to get off. Deliver a submissive service, or don’t; but don’t fake it.

Submissive PSOs might need to pull a few of those erotic punches, but they should never fake spanking or cropping themselves. Sure, you might manage to mimic the right sound of the “smack,” but managing to know when to yelp or squeal — or when it begins to smart enough to cry — is another matter. Yes, good little phone sex subs are likely to be sore by the end of a call, given themselves some marks too. Those good little girls know that those are the marks of good phone sex service! (And you can often make more money by offering to sell photos of those marks after the call.)

On the other side of the BDSM scene…

For FemDoms, delivering these sounds is less of an issue. However, the lack of ability to actually deliver the blow or leave a sting leaves some pro Dommes at a loss for what to do on the phone. You can have the submissive phone sex callers deliver the blows to themselves while you count them out, hence leading the scene. Or, you can have them count their own lashes, offering comments of satisfaction or dissatisfaction, as the case may be.

And don’t forget, Dommes, that slapping yourself on the palm of your hand, on a desk or table top, etc. is like a nun with a ruler — the noise will snap a sub to attention!

Also, for those with voyeuristic fantasies — those who want you to paint a picture of you leading in a dungeon while they peep safely from the sidelines, having a few other toys that make noise is a good idea.

In any case, there are some tools better and safer than others for making the noises needed in BDSM phone sex calls; here’s the skinny on a few of them.

A wooden hairbrush, a long staple in domestic punishment stories, is likely something most every phone sex operator has laying about. It makes a rather loud sound. It will leave marks!

A ping pong paddle packs an auditory punch — and it leaves less marks than most other spanking toys.

Cropping, whipping, caning, etc. yourself is nearly impossible to effectively and safely do on the phone. The size of most canes, crops, floggers — combined with arm length and body position — makes use of it on yourself unwieldy and unsafe. Use of any of these “toys” requires skill and care as it is. Those who actually practice BDSM will be understanding of this fact; those who aren’t don’t need to be reminded of this fact during fantasy play. Instead, a safer option is to use a leather leash or collar which will provide similar sounds in the air and on flesh — close enough, at least, for phone sex calls.

Paddles can be used safely by yourself. (And now that there are so many special designs and patterns, you can offer very unique and identifiable custom photos of their results!)

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