How To Avoid Awkward Phone Sex

Phone sex can be as much fun as being there in-person — or as awkward. If you don’t want fumbling, elbows everywhere, ow-you’re-on-my-hair, awkward kind of phone sex, keep reading.

While most of this blog is devoted to helping PSOs be successful, and therefore offers tips and techniques on how to satisfy phone sex caller requests, the truth is that successful phone sex is equally dependent upon the caller himself. The most satisfying phone sex calls are, like in-the-flesh sex, a matter of give and take.

There are four key components callers must note:

#1 Be comfortable, open, ready to dive in — but don’t dive in right away. Give yourselves some time to get comfortable, physically and emotionally. Spend a few minutes in casual chit chat. Do what you’d normally do when you first get on the phone or meet a person. Consider this the dinner part of the date and relax knowing the date is a sure thing.

#2 Don’t rush. Your phone sex date is a sure thing, so there’s no reason to rush right into it. I don’t say this as a PSO who just wants your money. The truth is, the best phone sex allows you to luxuriate in the companionship of the call. Assuming your phone sex call is not some masturbatory session for medicinal purposes, calls should not be whipped-off like some band-aid. Consider your time with a PSO a warm cozy soapy bath, not an efficient morning shower, and prepare to enjoy every moment. It honestly will bring about a more satisfactory call — and orgasm.

Should you have some reason for a short call (and anything under 30 minutes really is a short call), let your phone sex operator know that upfront so she can do her best to pace the call to meet your needs.


#3 Since the caller is the one who initiates the call, it is up to him to decide where this date goes. He does this by confessing what he really wants, either in messages before the call or in the call itself. The more specific your fantasy, the more specific the information you share. Your PSO is your phone sex partner and while those really great ones may seem like mind readers, they really aren’t; she can’t fulfill your fantasy unless you share it. So, guys, know what you want and let the phone sex operator know it!

#4 Be vocal. Phone sex is all about the aural thrills — which means talking, moaning, grunting, and other vocal utterances. So, callers, you need to give your PSO some feedback. Tell her when she’s hot; tell her when she’s cold. And tell her before the call is over so she can drive you wild with desire, not away from the phone.

PSOs, I’ve created a little whitepaper with questions and prompts to get callers comfortably chatting and confessing.

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