Why Aren’t There Any Good Phone Sex Review Sites?

“Cue-Baller” writes in, asking why there aren’t many good phone sex review sites:

They are clearly either directories, presumably just spots people paid for because they read like advertisements, or are sites run by a phone sex company or a few girls who chipped-in on a site to promote themselves. I get so tired of going through page after page of unhelpful search results. Why can’t I find a good phone sex review site? Can you recommend any?

“Cue-Baller” raises a good question, no matter how simple the answer may be.

While I obviously cannot state that absolutely no good PSO review sites exist, the problems of a review site are twofold:

The first is one of money and logistics: There’s no way to sample the services for free — and ascertain that the girl you are talking with is the girl behind the listing or PSO phone number. Which means any reviewer would need to spend his own money to use the service. Why would he then spend more time and money to share his thoughts with others? At best, the reviewer would be covering his favorite niches, fetishes, fantasy types, etc. based on his own budget.

This is why most phone sex sites offer customers the option of reviewing via ratings and feedback; these are mini-reviews.

Which brings us to the second point: Many phone sex callers do not like to leave feedback or reviews. Sometimes, it’s because they fear they will be recognized (real life identity or user ID tracked by other PSOs). But quite often the truth is that when a guy really digs his PSO, he doesn’t want to share her. He wants her available for himself, perhaps even a bit dependent upon him… She’s his secret — his dirty little secret that’s his, all his!

Sure, it may be a bit selfish… But he’s afraid a glowing review (or a dozen) will mean his favorite phone sex operator will become too busy to readily accommodate him when he fancies some time with her.

Unlike leaving a review for a movie or other mass market product, a PSO’s time is finite. It’s a service. Even if a DVD is temporarily sold out, there’s more on the way, a secondary marketplace to search, or even a replacement product available. However, since professional phone sex with an independent PSO is such a unique, custom experience — and a service, not a product — “too popular” can actually be a problem. Or at least be a fear.

While the process of reviewing is common enough in the world of escorting, it’s just not as necessary in terms of phone sex work. In escorting, the primary customer focus is one of trust: How well does the girl match her photo? Was she clean? Did she actually provide the agreed upon services? And, since truly independent escorts don’t have any platform companies or agencies to contact in terms of contacting regarding dissatisfied services, and these are quite often cash transactions for which there is no credit card company to assist, those looking for professional companionship (called “hobbiests” or “punters”) often rely on the reviews of others. But this sort of information or these concerns are just not as vital in terms of phone sex entertainment services.

While many PSOs, myself included, would love for there to be an honest review site, so far, it’s just hasn’t been something phone sex callers themselves have invested in.  …How about it, “Cue-Baller,” care to start one? I can get you a list of great ladies to try. *wink*

4 thoughts on “Why Aren’t There Any Good Phone Sex Review Sites?

  1. Nuala

    I tell my callers that by helping my business, by leaving feedback, they help keep me at the top of the site’s directory–which makes it more likely to keep me in the phone sex business–which is a win win for all. Sure it makes me more popular, but like any business, I cannot survive on just one customer, and my hope is that most customers can understand this.

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  2. mace-trasco

    A True Review site with callers comments, and “ads” by pso’s that are not in position by fake voting, could be a huge help to an industry plagued by a bad reputation. I am tired of PSC etc operating supposedly a referral service that is corrupt, and only based on revenue for PSC. Some other owners and operators are interested in starting a free unbiased review site with ads that rotate everytime, if interested, leave contact info on a comment.

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  3. Phone Sex Secrets

    Mace, I doubt anyone is going to feel comfortable to leave their contact info here… Feel free to contact me about making a post about this with a better way of getting in touch. :)

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