Today’s Phone Sex Tip: The Sounds Of Orgasm

I’m mainly giving this tip in response to a PSO client who was having long calls, but was receiving poor feedback, few repeat callers, and even less regular clients. Through a lengthy conversation, it was discovered that her natural reaction to intense arousal and orgasm is near silence. When she begins becoming aroused, she makes some moans and the like; but as things progress, the more intense her feelings, the more she retreats into her own silent little world. For callers who are into the sounds of a woman’s pleasure, this was a huge disappointment which left them thinking that she just lost interest, had checked out of the call, or had fallen asleep.

This silent response to arousal and orgasm is a natural occurrence in both women and men. Consider it rather like still waters running deep. But in the world of phone sex, where the pleasures at least begin with the auditory sounds, this can a problem for a PSO.

If you’re the sort of woman whose silence increases with her arousal, or otherwise turns inward with such physical pleasures, you have two ways to approach this potential phone sex problem.

The first option is to communicate your natural response to your callers early on. Phone sex is about communication after all. Your confession doesn’t need to be a “disclaimer” or “warning” that turns folks off. In fact, drawing the caller in, having him listening so closely to you, can be a great way to increase the intensity of intimate calls.

The second option is to increase your vocal response to arousal, at least when performing as a phone sex operator. For some, this just means practicing while masturbating; i.e. learning to listen to yourself and freeing your voice to make a few groans, howls, and yowls so as to communicate vocally the increase in pleasure. For others, it may just mean faking it.

There are many times when I recommend that PSOs ought to fake their own physical pleasure. In terms of offering a service, the phone sex operator is supposed to focus on the caller’s pleasure — and it’s pretty difficult to focus on anything but your own pleasure when you are at or near orgasm. Even when a caller wants to hear your pleasure, you have to be focusing on him, his noises, his breathing, pacing the story or conversation in order to give him what he wants — and more importantly what he needs. How can you effectively lead a good call for him when you are focused on you?

This brings up the converse of this “too silent orgasm” situation: the “too loud” or “not real” complaints.

If you’re in this business long enough, eventually you will have a caller accuse you of faking it — whether you are or not. In fact, I’ve been accused of such things when I, a real screamer, have been coming my hardest. Just remember, it’s not you; it’s them. Not everyone has watched Chloe or other orgasmic screamers in porn or been with a loud sex partner. And even when guys have been with an orgasmic screamer, it doesn’t mean they moved her to such vocalizations. I don’t recommend, unless you are a humiliating femdom, telling your accusatory caller that his experiences are limited or his sexual skills weak; but don’t let him convince you that you are weird or anything either.

You can remain confident about your own vocalizations, primitive utterances, silences, etc. while at the same time noting his beliefs (or, as I call them, his preferences) for possibly enhancing the current and any future calls.

But what is perhaps most fundamentally important of all is the consistency of your sex sounds.

While female orgasms may be like snowflakes, no two alike, you as a professional phone sex operator ought to include in your notes the type of orgasm you exhibited in the calls with your clients so that, should you be granted the chance, you will be up for a repeat performance. Because it’s what your caller is expecting in terms of your vocalized orgasmic bliss that matters in professional phone sex. Even if he complained or questioned your orgasm before. Maybe even more so then; otherwise he will think he has “caught” you faking it.

A clever PSO learns how to provide just enough consistency along with customization and creativity to increase a repeat caller’s pleasure while keeping calls from becoming boring — whether it is the vocalization of her orgasm or the story she tells.

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